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Ghosted After an Interview? Use This Follow-Up Sequence (Without Sounding Desperate)

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You interviewed. You sent a thank-you. And then… nothing.

Being ghosted after an interview is one of the most demoralizing parts of job searching—because you don’t even get closure. The mistake most people make next is either:

  • following up too aggressively (and burning goodwill), or
  • waiting so long they lose momentum (and confidence).

This post gives you a simple follow-up sequence that’s professional, calm, and designed to get you an answer—*without making your whole week revolve around one company.*

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The one rule that prevents 80% of follow-up anxiety

Anchor your follow-ups to a timeline you both heard.

At the end of every interview, ask:

> “What are the next steps and when should I expect an update?”

If they say “by Friday,” your follow-up isn’t emotional—it’s just a normal checkpoint.

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The follow-up schedule (use this exact cadence)

Step 0 — Same day: send a short thank-you (optional, but helpful)

If you already sent one, skip this.

  • Keep it short.
  • Mention one specific thing you discussed.
  • Reconfirm interest.

Step 1 — 1 business day after their promised date (or 3–5 business days after the interview)

Send Follow-Up #1.

Step 2 — 5 business days after Follow-Up #1

Send Follow-Up #2.

Step 3 — 7 business days after Follow-Up #2

Send a Close-the-loop email (polite, final, low effort for them to answer).

After that: move on. Not out of bitterness—out of self-respect and efficiency.

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Follow-Up #1 (copy/paste)

Subject: Quick check-in on {{Role}} next steps

Hi {{Name}},

I hope your week is going well. I’m checking in on the {{Role}} interview from {{Day}}—I’m still very interested, and I wanted to see whether there’s an updated timeline for next steps.

If there’s anything else I can share to help with the decision, I’m happy to provide it.

Best,

{{Your Name}}

Why this works: it’s calm, specific, and gives them an easy “timeline update” response.

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Follow-Up #2 (copy/paste)

Subject: Following up — {{Role}} status

Hi {{Name}},

Just following up once more on the {{Role}} process. I understand timelines can shift—could you confirm whether you’re still moving forward and, if so, what the next step looks like?

Thanks again,

{{Your Name}}

Why this works: it asks for a yes/no style confirmation without guilt-tripping.

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Close-the-loop email (copy/paste)

Subject: Closing the loop — {{Role}}

Hi {{Name}},

I haven’t heard back, so I’m going to assume priorities may have shifted. If the role is still active, I’d appreciate any quick update—either way is helpful for my planning.

Thanks for the time you and the team invested.

Best,

{{Your Name}}

Why this works: it gives them a graceful exit *and* makes it easy to reply in one line.

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The upgrade most candidates never use: “value-add” follow-up (optional)

If you want to stand out without being pushy, send this only once, replacing Follow-Up #1:

  • 2–4 bullet recap
  • 1 relevant link/project (optional)
  • 1 sentence on how you’d approach the role

Example:

Hi {{Name}},

Quick check-in on next steps for {{Role}}. To make it easy, here’s a short recap from our conversation:

  • {{Pain point / goal they mentioned}}
  • {{What you’ve done that maps to it}}
  • {{Impact you drove / metric}}

If helpful, I can also share a short one-pager on {{relevant topic}}.

Thanks again—still very interested.

This keeps you professional *and* memorable.

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What NOT to do (even if you’re angry)

  • Don’t send multiple messages in the same week.
  • Don’t “call them out” publicly on LinkedIn.
  • Don’t write a long emotional essay.
  • Don’t stop applying elsewhere while waiting.

Ghosting is not feedback. It’s information about their process.

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The real win: don’t let one process freeze your search

Even if you really liked the company, keep your pipeline moving. A healthy rhythm is:

  • follow the cadence above
  • continue applying to other roles in parallel
  • keep your materials consistent—but role-specific

If your bottleneck is tailoring fast without going generic, HyperApply is built for that “keep momentum” workflow:

(You stay in control—review, edit, decide where to apply. The point is speed + quality, not automation for its own sake.)

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Quick FAQ

How long should I wait before assuming I’m ghosted?

If they gave a timeline, wait 1 business day after it. If they didn’t, follow up after 3–5 business days.

Should I follow up on LinkedIn instead of email?

Email first. LinkedIn is a backup if you truly have no other channel and you keep it short.

Should I send a third follow-up?

Your third message should be the close-the-loop email. After that, move on.

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Bottom line

You don’t need to chase. You need a system.

Use:

  • one professional check-in
  • one final follow-up
  • one close-the-loop message

Then keep your pipeline moving with role-specific applications you can sustain.